Should Young Single Mothers Automaticly Be Seen As Victims?

Should 18-21 year old single mothers be treated like victims or should they ever be looked at as having any responcibility for their getting involved with irresoncible bums? Its like the women that gets beaten by her menfolk, I have no pity for these types because they usually stay with & are attracted to guys that batter them & then they act like they deserve pity when they get the abuse that they like in a way cause they wouldn't respect their boyfriends if they didn't do stuff like act like brute guerillas (which occasionally inolves infidelidty and getting hit for some shit). They wanted brutes so why are they victims when they get manhandled (and come back to him or another brute)?