Showing posts with label modern life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label modern life. Show all posts

Friday, January 22, 2010

Will me and my piers be writing on eachothers facebook walls at 54 and 78?

I've been wondering since early on the post-Facebook era what will become of the orginal facebook generation (my generation). I mean, will we stay on facebook forever or will we slowly deactivate our facebook accounts like responcible adults around our mid-to-late 30's when we start getting married and/or having kids?

Must would probably say the later but i am very dubious about how easily my piers will be able to give up their facebook profiles just because of something as seemingly arbitrary as age. And the connection between young people and their facebook profiles is generally quite under-estimated. Consider how much time young people spend on facebook not just per-week but per-day. Our facebook profiles our our memberships cards, if you will, our surrogrates, our proxys in a digital commune where we all have become used to interacting on the average Wenseday night at 8 pm. We like writing status and getting instant comments and all the rest. Plus, consider photos on facebook. Now some men but almost all girls have a ton of facebook photos of themselves surrounded by friends. As me and my piers have gotten on in life having all mostly joined facebook (after saying we wouldn't) around Sophomore year of High School girls now have a pretty long history in there facebook photos. They can scroll back and see what they were doing, what color hair they had, how fat or thin they were, who they where hanging out a lot with Freshman year, Sophmore year, Junior year and so fourth and so on. By the time the girls i know are in there late 20's their facebook photo collections will be a priceless part of their collections of stuff (like a scarp-book or a year book X 10). To give up all those photos, would be like burying all those cherished memories of the good ole' days, it would be like erasing their past with the click of a button. Then think of the value added by facebook chat which allows friends from high school dispersed around the nation at colleges, jobs, etc. never be really more than a mouse click away. It wouldn't be to easy to get rid of that kind of conveince, would it? And what would you do instead? Go back to calling friends to ask them "How's Boulder?"? 1. The phone is so much effort 2. it costs money 3. it would be weird to call just to ask "hows boulder?" with some people your friends with but not that close with but wouldn't be weird on facebook. Finally, one of the eternal appeals of staying on facebook, even in a nominile way is that people can contact you that probably wouldn't call you or write you (for whatever reason) the same thing if you didn't have facebook. For instance, with girls i like but aren't close friends with, facebook chat allows for me to talk to them in a non akward way to strike up conversation with them (and possibly kindle something more) by asking them stuff like "Hey, Maddy, i heard you got in a car crash? did you?". And, atleast for me, it would be tough deactivactinng my account because if i did i'm afraid i'd be contsantly be wondering about all the possible out of the blue suprising/at times life changing facebook messages i could have been sent from some girl i like but never thought liked me writing,

"Hey long time, no see. I know we hardly talked at ETHS but I always thought you where really intresting and funny and cool and I always wanted to chill with you. Anyway, i heard your in town right now and i just moved back home too and I was wondering what your up to. I hope you don't think this is weird of me. If you want to ever hang out my numbers 1-847-477-2389. bye Daniel."


I've actually gotten a few of those in the past. There the kind of things you read that make you feel like a million bucks and give a rush of adrelaine and excitement and ancipation, ya' know? Well, for some reason, I haven't checked my facebook messages in 3-4 months (i now have 291 messages to read) and I'm hoping to find some messages like the one above the day i devote to opening all those letters/messages. My fear is that they'll all be facebook-group or event mass messages like

"SUMMERCAMP 2010, line up announced today! merchandice available too!"



p.s.

A FINAL THOUGHT:

Like i said by the time my generation is 30 or 40 years old our facebook accounts will be so valuable to us with all those photos, that huge archive of old status' and wall posts and videos and messages, etc. that we can look to look back on our lives. This raises to unappealing possibilities:

1. That facebook will start to charge people who have had facebook accounts for over 10 or 15 years knowing that we will pay to keep our 83,000 photos and wall posts &

2. That all this constantly looking back at facebook photos of us at 18 and 24 when where 37 or 40 will make us the most depressed and nostlagic generation ever.

The Facebook Face



Anyone under atleast 20 years of age (in America) knows the above faces very well. They've seen it a thousand times before: 1 or 2 or more girls hanging around one of there cribs, one girl talks about this guy she hooked up with from the next town over last weekend and she shows them his picture on facebook, one thing leads to another and boom! They've found there way to the photo booth application on there Mac's and are photo-boothin' away doing what girls love to do look at themselves in the mirror and in pictures, making goofy faces and giggling (chicken soup for a young ladies' soul). And what is produced after this spree of self-absortion/slumber party antics/school girly fun is a digital teenage wasteland of millions of facebook photo albums full of picture after picture of usually 2 or more girls, there faces blue with the glare of there computer screen, making the exact type of goofy, moderatly annpying, zany- in a girly way facial exspressions (as seen above).

I mean I could and perhaps will someday soon go and spend 2 minuetes rounding up a batch of nearly identical pictures from girl's i know's facebook photo album's with girls making, literally, the exact same facial exspressions as these 2 girls.

I decree the above face: THE FACEBOOK GIRL FACE.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Thoughts on the importance of not rewarding Paris Hilton's with noteriety


I'm as many 19 year olds thinking about what path to take in life as far jobs are concerned. And i keep having in different variations the same argument in my head.

Me: i should go where my heart is: in policy. thats what i'm best and it's good for the country and for me as an American. It matters if i grow old in a majority latino nation that is much poorer or if i can prevent that or help do so.

Me 2: Well thats all well and good but do you know what the average salary is at a conservative think tank? You'll be poor and you'll have no notoriety and you'll regret it your entire life, while self intrested people are in the upperclass and your in the huge new ghettoized underclass, getting surgery from faceless beucrats, waiting in line behind a crowd of illegals speaking spanish, etc, etc. It's going to be a life of drugery fighting for "the common good". And Conservative is dead no matter how eloquently you make your point, you said you it yourself, the success or failure of conservativism is not about debates over ideas, it's all about demographics and wheather America continues to transform itself into mexico via immigration. The new Americans dont read National Review (if it even survives) and they dont care about whats good for America, they care about whats good for there racial group (latinos, balcks) and mindless vote liberal. Conservativism is doomed and America too likely. you know so yourself. Why go down with these two doomed ships when you can cash in on your far-sightedness and perceptivess and your knowledge of current events & trends, in the stock market for instance? I know you like to write, but it doesn't matter if you have to survive what you like to do. If you want write on the side. But first take care of your life. Your not going to have your parents to fall back upon foveever, get real about life on your own now and get practical about careers now, focus your focus!

But you must understand in 1912 i would go into the now unglamorous fields of work, science, policy anlyst, but now that Paris Hilton's are awarded fame, fuck the common good, just get rich, hot and famous, baby!!!!!

once a society awards and lionizes Paris Hilton with fame for doing nothing but being a rich slut and not just ignore but villifies the greatest scientists and inventors we have people like James Watson (who got fired for telling the truth about IQ and race) a nation is doomed because you set down the wrong values for young people who embrace decadence over goodness.

Sex and Terrorism: a love affair

Sometimes the truth is right under are noses. Today it is more than ever. The truth about what motivates islamic terrorism (and terrorism in general) is as everyday and familiar and, indeed, unviersal as catching a cold and yet most are oblivious to it entirely.

If you want to know this sad truth that is the ultimate driving force behind acts of Islamic terror take a look at the following courtesy of John Dernyshire,

"Pittsburgh computer techie George Sodini shooting up an aerobics class at his local gym. Three women died and at least ten others were wounded. Then Sodini shot himself. He left behind web diaries in which he wailed about his utter lack of success with women. He hadn't had a proper relationship since 1984, and hadn't had any sex at all since 1990. This is pretty baffling stuff. I think most of us assume that no matter how unsightly you are or how quirky your personality, there is someone out there to suit you. Sodini was not in fact unsightly. He was good-looking and kept himself in shape. His personality was a bit peculiar, but well within the range of everyday oddity for all anyone could see, and to judge from the video tour of his house you can see on the internet. He really tried to connect with women, even attending a dating course."

Yes, indeed, as with so many other issues, sex and the lack of it, is at the heart of islamic terrorism. I've suspected this for a while and known it to be true far longer. Perhaps women won't get this point as quickly as men will for lack of testrone. But ladies, you must understand, as many of you do understand i'm sure, how easily a man, these days, can come to hate women to such a degree that they feel compelled to shot up a arobics class full of innocent members of your gentle sex to death.
You see out of need springs hate. Men hate women, to varying degrees, cause they need women and they hate that they need creatures they find while attractive, to be at the same time so often, so dumb, so shallow, and so annoying (to them not me ofcourse). Ofcourse this level of irratation with the more, let us say, garish charcterstics of the modern liberated American women is usually a product of a man who finds his desire for women woefully unrescpricated. Mr. Sodini certainly found his own desire for the fairer sex unrecipocrated to a excruciating extent.


But this is just one type of male/muslim male susciptible to the siren song of Bin Ladenism and terrorism. It is always, the lonely sexually frustrated muslim alone in America that goes loco and shoots up a arobics class of middle aged women. That kind of jihadist is home grown in western societys like Major Hasan and the English 7/7 bombers, but the type of muslim that comes from the mid-east to do there deed like the 9/11 hijackers are a different breed of enraged muslim. This other breed is inspired by sex in another less immediately direct way. This lot of foreign born islamic terrorists quite have a content family life. They often have a wife and might have not just one but 7 wives as in the case of Osama Bin Laden and usually have quite a few children too. While like most muslims who've grown up in middle eastern nations, they may not have had that much interaction let alone sexual intimacy with women before marriage and maybe not much after they usally aren't in most cases, very sexually frustrated persons. There rage at the west derives from a fear of female liberation (which however moral is a somewhat rational fear). If the Sodini home-grown terrorists are motivated by pessmism and depression. Anti-Americanism in the middle-east is not so much hatred as it is simple fear or atleast animosity fueled by fear.

Muslim fathers in the middle east, quite understandably, can develope a keen hatred for the west in fear of there daughters becoming slutty, amoral, Paris Hilton's through the corrupt influence of MTV and the rest of feminized, decadent western media. They hate and fear the image of the Paris Hilton females of the west, strutting around in there slutty lust-inducing clothes, shopping on there fathers tab and dominanting weak-chinned, feminized males who they've have tied around there feminine fingers.

If there is one person muslims scorn and fear, it is not evangelical Christian, George W. Bush, or othodox jewish neo-con's like Norman Podhoretz, but the liberal Paris Hilton and the even more liberal, Betty Friedan-the twin symbols of "female liberation" and modern female sluttery. I've long been pointing out (as a critic of both the Afgan and Iraqi war) that muslims do turn to anti-western jihadism because of American tanks rolling into Bagdad but because of television Sattelite beeming MTV into there daughters bedroom. Even if America, as i hope, would withdrawl all it's tentacles from the world jihadism would keep on apace for the American 5th infantry division of the US army but is supported by MTV.
The United States has never intervened in Yemen, so why are so many major radical Imams coming out of Yemen? Because they do not fear American bombs falling on there heads but they do American hedonism and feminism entering there culture, there daily lives, there customs, there family lives and destroying it all for them. They don't fear there daughters being bombed by an American jet aircraft, the fear there daughter becoming a rebellious, atheist, "western slut" after she gets a taste of American culture.

This is why i laugh when i hear liberals going on talking about how the existence of Gauntnamo Bay is causing Muslims to turn to anti-American jihadism. Look, our wars in Afganistan and Iraq i won't deny have added to anomsity towards America (though i think that won't be true once we leave) but Gitmo, Iraq, Afganistan, even the Abu Grahib scandal all in the long run add neglibly to the likelihood of another Fort Hood shooting.

Our occupation of Iraq, the waterboarding of KSM, all these things are all low hanging fruit for a jihadist terrorist looking for excuses/justfications for why they shot up a arobics class or blew up a building. Take Mr. Sodini, the shooter of innocent women in a arobics class, is he going to say or write in the note he leaves for the police when they raid his apartment that he did what he did because he couldn't get laid? or because he hates uppity wetsern "liberated" womenhood in there corrupty clothes? No, that would be too embarsing. He would be laughed at by the whole country the one time he gets his face on the front page of the New York Times. So these terrorists leave sucide notes mentioning Israel and Gauntanmo Bay and all the rest instead.

This is pretty basic human nature and yet, seemingly, no one mentions sexual frustration as a driving cause of jihadist terrorism (or terrorism altogether) out of embarsment or cowardice or lack of creative anylatical skills to be sure.

As i said earlier, sex is at the bottom of issues outside terrorism. In fact, with many issues, true understanding of the issue at hand is, incomplete, without understanding the sex factor. What if you were wondering why Japan (like China), for instance, is so homegenous and takes in hardly any immigrants? Most people would come up with some boiler plate exsplanation about "Japanese tradition". Surely, a large part of the exsplanation is rather unsayable, which i would adduce to be Japanese fears of sexual inadquecy. Japanese men and asian males, in agreggate, have surely noticed to there discomfort, the trend in America, for example, for asian women to defect from the race, and marry and date non-asian typically white males. This fact about female Asian preferences has created a great many bitter asian guys hence the name of the popular blog BitterAsianGuy.com. Thus the Japanese, not wanting there women to stray, have logically decided not to, say, import tens of millions of non-asian men into there country who may potentially "steal" a gross number of "there women". Why take the risk of new sexual compietors? Makes sence right? But as is obvious to say this in public would be completly out of the question and would probably offend or atleast make any asian males present extremly uncomfartable. Yet another akward though nonetheless truth point about matters related to race.

But even this point about asian and sex is not at all seperate from the discussion of terrorism. One of the most famous home grown American terrorist was 23-years old, Cho Seung-Hui the Virginia Tech student who murdered 33 and injured 50 on his rampage on the Virgina Tech campus back in 2007.

What was the motivating cause of the korean immigrant, Seung-Hui's massacre? Sex-once again.

As came out after the Virgina Tech massacre ,Cho Seung-Hui, was isolated, alien to his surroundings and his non-Korean piers and most of all, chronically sexually or atleast "romantically" frustrated. He had gotten in trouble earlier at Virgina Tech for stalking a girl he was infutiated with, following her around, calling her until she went to the campus faclulty for help getting the creepy Seung-Hui of her back. And then months later Cho Seung-Hui loses it, but loses it with gun aimed at his fellow students.

Lest you not see the obvious implications, this says something about the problematic nature of diversity. Young men and men will always be insecure and at times, sexually discontent anyplace, anytime-no matter what. It's merely human nature. But to be a stranger in a strange and/or foreign land can compound the fatalism of young man down on his with the ladies to a terrible even, as we see, dangerous degree. It must be tough on asians, for instance, in America to watch TV when almost all the faces on the screen don't look like theres. To be, at times, looked in a different way. To be, wheather perceived or truelly, treated in a different way. To be a ethnic "outsider". In case one ascribes these things that can make one feel like an outsider to "racism", note that these things are all naturely part of the exsperiences of any person who finds themselves living in a nation where they belong to a very small minority of the population.

If Cho Seung-Hui had grown up in his native Korea rather than come to America the chance are that he would not have become a school shooter. Chances are that Cho Seung-Hui might well have felt the same social alienation and sexual dissapointment that meet him in America but chances are that those ubiqtous adlocents annoyances wouldn't have blommosed into murdeous rage. But his loneliness was obvilously compunded by being a Korean in America as was true Mr. Sodini and is was true with Major Hasan the most recent domestic terrorist to kill innocent people in America.

The reason you don't have white Americans committing as much acts of terror is among other reasons, mainly the result of them being in "there own" society vacinatted against the variety of rage and alienation that so easily plagues non-white foreigners and immigrants in America like Hasan and Cho Seung-Hui.

I'll guess i'll just put this down as no. 76 in my endlessly ong-going list of reasons why diversity is nothing to be desired(and don't need more mass immigration). But then again, nothing outside "increasing threats posed to our national security by our open borders" seems to be allowed to be mention as to what the downsides of mass immgration are.

I can happily and honestly say for the first time, that this post here at my up n' coming blog America Departed is something you really really won't get anywhere else.

Allow to end this incredibly insightful lesson in the causes of jihadist terrorism by proscribing a policy solution. It's quite simply:

The way to decrease the risk of producing the next home grown Major. Hasan or Cho Seung-Hui is not to invade the world or "engage" with the middle east there gasy Obama-esque rhetoric about Islam as a religoun of "peace", but to legalize prostitution. If hookers where more readily available to the next would-be domestic terrorist he might put down the 44. magnum and pick a magnum condom.

Monday, December 28, 2009

Two Liberal Archetypes

I'd like to discuss two archetypes, two distincly new charcters now so common to life in the modern world (atleast familiar to modern American life). They belong to the yuppie sector of the left wing. There are two kinds of Democrats: there are people who vote Democratic but don't embrace the full liberal world view (of being a part time diversity enthusaist, a racist whistleblower, gay rights defender, all around activist, etc.) and then are true liberals who don't just vote liberal but live liberal 24/7. They can be described, as the Democrats who acatually are into poltics. There the more annoying the more informed Democrat. They are almost always white, yuppies, who drive Volkswagons and want to move to Berlin and could be mistaken for GAP manaquins at any given moment. you know the type, they all have useless sociology/english/women's studies degrees and work in fields like marketing, the media, and academia.

I'd like to discuss 2 odd aspects of this modern liberal archetype i have always found fascinating.

1. Of the two this is the most important and ultimately ironic liberal yuppie sub-type. This is the white male yuppie-bookish, timid, well-mannered, intellectually intrested, likes poltics and debate and reading and revels in high culture and high art. Yet he is completly devoid of any trace, as a good liberal, of the most basic and obvious self-intrest. Namely in the regard of immigration and demographic change. They are not indifferent, no, rather they are passionately, often hysterically, in defence of contuning mass 3rd world immigration. They don't, as all good liberals, think about immigration and certainly not demographic change (only when forced) for such subjects are for warped, xenuphones to car about. But if you bring up the subject of say how many predict 2050 to be the year whites become a minority in America they will recoil and/or grow hysterical at the fact that you even care about such change as if they are offended or disgusted that such things would even grab your attention. Let alone, come and out and say that we need a moratirium on immigration so that we can remain a majority European nation and then they start labeling you a sick "racist".
But you start to wonder, don't they even think about demographic change at all? Don't they see that they are crusading so belligerently on the part of policys that besides hurting the nation (which is not compelling to them anyways) is so clearly detrimental to them? Why is America become less white and more Mexican and black bad for the white "overeducated", "intellectual", yuppie liberals i speak of? Well because latino and black culture, which is largely hip hop culture, despite sharing the liberal yuppies love for Obama and welfarism, is the cultural antithesis of meek and mild, ultra-femnist, sensitive, anti-consumerist, liberal yuppie culture. White Starbucks yuppie-liberalism culture is all about sipping ethipian bean free-trade lattes and speaking about the new upcoming Wes Anderson film quitely and politely while chicano and black hip hop culture is about free style rapping "homophobic", "mysogonistic", "consumerist" rythms and making fun of each other very louidly while drinking 40's and rolling blunts and speaking broken english. The white yuppie thinks of himself as "with it" when it comes to everything third-world and non-white and non-traditional. He thinks he can connect if given the chance with the victimized and oppressed "proleteriate" cause he is there defender. The white liberal yuppie glorifies hip hop culture. The white yuppie teaches black teenage mothers slam poetry at goverment funded "poetry centers", they are the community organizer, the young idealist teacher in the ghetto classroom. But despite their efforts, and the white yuppie has tried very very hard to "connect" and "uplift" the black and latino ghetto youth culture, the two groups are simply far two different. But the white yuppie liberal doesn't critize anything non-white.While the black gantas and chicano teenage thugs laugh at the yuppie liberals and the hipsters as nerdy, the white yuppie restrains, monk -like, from any critqiue of latino and black hip hop culture, to do so would be to go conservative and to admit that racism isn't holding them down but there own culture.
But you still would think, doesn't the white yuppie ever realize that the society they want to live, a NPR-Terry Gross-Starbucks-Sava Darfur-Ani DiFranco-beat poetry-society is totally at odds with the society they are bringing about by arguing on behalf of mss immigration and open borders, which is an increasingly black and latino slum society, a Bitchz n' hoes-bling-bling-hyper-masculine-ultra-consumerist-low-culture-bad-TV-no-books-"whats NPR?"-society. But ofcourse to even ackowledge this conflict would be to be saying something bad about non-white culture and something implicitly good about white culture which is a no-no. And as one can tell reading liberal colmunist, what is a central source of liberal self esteem is there feeling that they are the white people marching with MLK, that they are in essence, "the good white people", they seem to have guilt problems, and they need to seperate themselves from other whites, to make clear to the world that they are the "enlightened white people", the "white people who know that white people are evil and holding you guys down". They're intertional soldiarity fetish gives them a fantasy self image as being united with the migrant worker, the black criminal (victim of white oppresion), the native american, the buddist, and not being just another "white guy or gal". There liberalism and there idiotic diversity fetish is not about poltics as much as it is about status. There left wing "i'm-more-proggesive-than-you!" poltics is a way of marking there status above other whites in a new age of globalization inwhich status heirachy is all a-jumble. Thats why i'm convisced that they don't even think about immigration, they just know that "good white people", people on the side of "progress" would be on the side of the illegal immigrant, thus they are, no thinking nesscary, they're stance on amnesty like so many other issues is set by default. When they adopted there all-encompassing white yuppie liberal identity as "good, proggesive, enlighned, compassionate white people" they adopted with it a social idenity and a whole bunch of default positions required of "good white people": which means, for instance, in order to keep your status as a good white person, you simply can't be concerned about immigration, because illegal immigration is just oppressed peoples getting revenge for years of repression, instead of caring about say a vile hip hop culture which embodies the "misogyny" and "consumerism" that they claim to disdain, they endorse hip hop and focus there faked scorn on Christianity and patriotism and calling people who care about Rev. Wright racist.
But can't they see what i and all sane people can see so clearly for just a milisecond, which is that the policy they support, with there donations to the Southern Poverty Law Center and CAIR and Media Matters will have them living in a 3rd world slum by the time there middle age and despite what they say, they would hate that more than anything. Just look at the white yuppies personal lives and the core hypocrisy of there bogus idenitity reveals itself: that being that they live and will always live as long as they can live in all-white/asian/jewish neigborhoods. They make damn sure to send there kids to schools with minimal numbers of latino and black kids. They secretly raise there disaprove and/or worry about there children having mostly black and/or latino friends (granted its not at a early age). Ofcourse they never would say a word admitting aprhension in this regard. (By the way, another less prounced hypocrictal aspect of these white yuppie types is the fact that they so often owe there livilehood and there lavish living conditions to the major corporations they work for in some capacity, the same corporations, they almost as an act of atonement, defame and slander through there poltical views.)
Part of me, can't wait for the copious amount of "i told you so" moment that await me and my white liberal yuppie friends and loved ones as we grow older and i am proven right and they grudgingly fall silent in admission of there foolishness. I warn the liberals who surround me in love and family and friendship that the policys they support in the area of immigration will have us both living under the thumb of a president Al Sharpton or House Speaker Louis Farrakhan soon enough and they skoff the suggestion of like science fiction (the way i, rightly, scoff of there predictions of San Frasico below the sea in 60 years).

2. The epcine "social justice" liberal yuppie male who gets teary-eyed passionate about gay rights and/or femnism. I find something so fundmentally gay or at the very least essentially effeminate about watch a male (presumably hetro) liberal gettin all verkilmept and girlishly passionate-irrational about "male shovenism" and "sexism" and "repressive gender roles" or "gay marriage as a human right!".